Sleeps Furiously

ealsopart: AHHH HELP IT’S TOO CUTE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH...

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:35:20 -0400

AHHH HELP IT’S TOO CUTE TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH KOFFING

Medusa's Heir: Exploring Emotionally Abusive Relationships

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:57:40 -0400

Medusa's Heir: Exploring Emotionally Abusive Relationships:

Characteristics of an emotionally abusive relationship include:

·         Using money as a means of control

·         Threatening to walk out or abandon you

·         Creating fear and anxiety through looks, words, threats and actions

·         Destroying things (and often things you value) – either in a cold and heartless way, or in an angry fit of rage

·         Using blaming, shaming, minimizing and denial to control you

·         Verbally attacking and demeaning you (includes name calling, shouting at you, criticising and putting you down – especially in public)

·         Attacking and putting you down in private, and acting loving and charming in public

·         Minimising the abuse; acting as if you’re over-reacting and it’s “no big deal”

·         Deliberately withholding approval, affirmation and affection as a means of punishment or control

The effects of living with emotional abuse include:

·         A fear of being natural and spontaneous

·         A loss of enthusiasm

·         Insecurity related to how they coming across to others

·         An inner belief that they are deeply flawed

·         A loss of self-confidence and self esteem

·         Growing self-doubt (so they’re afraid to make even the smallest decision, or to take on even the simplest of tasks)

·         Never trusting their own judgment (as they believe that they’re likely to get it wrong, or to misunderstand or misread everything)

·         Having a constant critic in their head

·         Feeling they should be happier and more upbeat than they are (in order to meet the approval of others)

·         Feeling they’re too sensitive, and ought to “toughen up”

·         Fearing they’re going crazy, or losing their mind

·         Having a tendency to live in the future (“Everything will be OK when/after ….”)

·         A desire to break free, escape or run away

·         A distrust and fear of entering into any close relationships again.

someonecalledmefamous: mu5icliz: germansam: tokyosluts: Sleeping is nice because youre not...

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:44:06 -0400

someonecalledmefamous:

mu5icliz:

germansam:

tokyosluts:

Sleeping is nice because youre not actually dead and youre not awake so its a win-win situation

It’s like being dead without the commitment.

an open relationship with death

death with benefits

anthonygherkins: If you can’t concentrate in school because the mere sight of a girl’s bare leg is...

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:42:03 -0400

anthonygherkins:

If you can’t concentrate in school because the mere sight of a girl’s bare leg is too much of a distraction, you are probably a danger to society tbh

another night of whisperings into my ear about how i ruined everything and how stupid i am and how i...

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:19:38 -0400

another night of whisperings into my ear about how i ruined everything and how stupid i am and how i completely deserved all the shit and abuse i put up with and how badly i can’t. bleeding. stand myself. and even writing it out makes me want to go drink bleach or something. i just can’t hold it all in. i talk and i talk and it’s never enough to make these nightly assaults stop. i’m too fucking crazy to do anything right, ever, to ever be around anyone good and deserve it, to even continue to stubbornly plod through another day of being alive and be anything more than another disintegrating mouthbreathing collection of cells destined for 60 more years of bad days. just fuck it. fuck it. it never actually gets better. i get lucky for a while and then fuck it all up and go back to moldering under a rock like the sorry scrap of blood and skin i am.

under a read more because shit. it’s shit. i am shit. nobody needs to see this. but i need to write it out or it’s just going to guzzle me alive.

coelasquid: Cute little animals are under the misinformed...

Sun, 19 May 2013 20:36:11 -0400

coelasquid:

Cute little animals are under the misinformed impression that looking cuter and fluffier will make you want to touch them less.

americangothgirl: wanderlustingthoughts: Look at this tree,...

Sun, 19 May 2013 20:34:19 -0400

americangothgirl:

wanderlustingthoughts:

Look at this tree, man.

The Angel Oak Tree is estimated to be in excess of 1500 years old, stands 66.5 ft (20 m) tall, measures 28 ft (8.5 m) in circumference, and produces shade that covers 17,200 square feet (1,600 m2). From tip to tip Its longest branch distance is 187 ft.

Ancient being.

bonesfeelcold: dinosaurs64: kardashitans: do u ever feel bugs on you when there are no...

Sun, 19 May 2013 20:33:55 -0400

bonesfeelcold:

dinosaurs64:

kardashitans:

do u ever feel bugs on you when there are no bugs

theyre the ghosts of bugs that youve killed

i wish i could unread this

utahraptorz: Rarity is done! :3 Next up will be Fluttershy!

Sun, 19 May 2013 20:33:44 -0400

utahraptorz:

Rarity is done! :3

Next up will be Fluttershy!

ohcorny: weepinduo

Sun, 19 May 2013 20:30:55 -0400

ohcorny:

weepinduo

dissimilate: We also gave our lovely advisor her very own...

Sun, 19 May 2013 17:21:54 -0400

dissimilate:

We also gave our lovely advisor her very own personalized stuffed wug!

i want one ;;

digitallyimpaired: this took like 20 years full zise

Sun, 19 May 2013 17:21:39 -0400

digitallyimpaired:

this took like 20 years

full zise

universityofhyrule: bad boy bad boywhatchu gonna do

Sun, 19 May 2013 17:18:24 -0400

universityofhyrule:

bad boy bad boy
whatchu gonna do

max-von-sirbaf: Gentleman Crow by cmoskowitz

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:41:53 -0400

max-von-sirbaf:

Gentleman Crow by cmoskowitz

abunchoftwats: bestrooftalkever: Two bald eagles in air battle...

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:40:21 -0400

abunchoftwats:

bestrooftalkever:

Two bald eagles in air battle crash-land at airport

Dude these two eagles were fighting mid-air and got stuck. They crash landed at an airport and both survived.

How hardcore is that? Look at their faces tho.

Its like “I swear to GAWD Jerry”

america

they actually do this all the time, sometimes they get really injured though. x-x my dad works with the local Raptor Conservancy and they often have to help nurse embattled eagles back to health

which is terrifying, btw, to be the guy who has to go up to two angry balds and try to get them disentangled

Photo

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:34:05 -0400

angergirl: AU CONTRAIRE MY GRANDMA GOT ALL A’S IN “ETIQUETTE”...

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:33:19 -0400

angergirl:

AU CONTRAIRE

MY GRANDMA GOT ALL A’S IN “ETIQUETTE” (YES THAT WAS AN ACTUAL CLASS IN HER HIGH SCHOOL) AND SHE TOLD ME, “DEAR,” SHE SAID,

“YOU NEVER CROSS YOUR LEGS, YOU CROSS YOUR ANKLES. BUT THE GREAT THING ABOUT YOU LIVING IN THIS GENERATION IS YOU DON’T HAVE TO FOLLOW MY GENERATION’S RULES. SIT THE WAY YOU WANT. IF SOMEONE LOOKS UP YOUR SKIRT, JUST TELL THEM YOUR AUNT MARY WILL KILL THEM.”

WHICH IS TRUE

MY AUNT MARY HAD A SWITCHBLADE IN A SPECIAL POCKET OF HER NIGHTGOWN UNTIL THE DAY SHE DIED

the moral of this story is

1. Sit the way you want.

2. My great aunt Mary was a fucking badass.

pony-effect: Queen by ~Giuliabeck

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:32:52 -0400

pony-effect:

Queen by ~Giuliabeck

magpieohmy: petermorwood: Todd Lockwood’s amazing animations...

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:30:55 -0400

magpieohmy:

petermorwood:

Todd Lockwood’s amazing animations of dragons in flight. The red dragon is conventional - if any dragon can be considered conventional - but the gold dragon with that extraordinary wing and helix-ripple, not at all…

Chickens are actually tiny dragons. [Insert that bobbing chicken head gif here only I’m too lazy to actually go find it.]

Photo

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:28:24 -0400